Become the Confident, Grounded Leader Your Relationship Needs
A 12-week 1:1 mentorship to build the self-trust and clarity to lead your relationship with grounded confidence.
What Men Are Saying About Working With Stu
Dr. Ricky Barrows - Psychologist
"Stu’s coaching helped me clarify my goals, focus my direction, and take meaningful steps forward. His grounding presence and thoughtful listening gave me the sense that someone truly had my back. Highly recommended for anyone seeking clarity and actionable steps in their journey."
D.S. - Lawyer
"I was stuck in frustrating cycles—Stu’s coaching changed everything. His approach cut through the noise, gave me practical tools and daily practices to create real momentum. I've gained a level of focus and confidence I didn't think possible. If you're ready to stop spinning and start progressing, Stu will guide you there."
Here's What Happens Next
STEP 1: Apply for Coaching
Click below to schedule your call. You'll answer a few questions so I can understand your situation before we talk.
STEP 2: We talk.
We have a 30-minute conversation. We'll discuss where you are, where you want to be, and whether this program is right for you.
STEP 3: You transform.
If we both agree it makes sense, we begin your 12-week journey. You become the confident, grounded leader your relationship needs.
Is This For You?
This is for men who:
Have achieved success but know they're capable of more at home
Walk on eggshells, avoid conflict, or say yes when they mean no
Want their partner to trust, respect, and desire them again
Are ready to do the uncomfortable inner work most men avoid
This is NOT for you if you're looking for quick fixes, communication hacks, or someone to tell you your partner is the problem.
This is for men ready to address the real problem: learning to lead themselves first.
The Trusted Man Intensive
A 12-week 1-on-1 mentorship designed to help you build self-trust and lead your relationship with grounded confidence.
You'll work directly with me through four foundational pillars:
CLARITY
Know Your Truth: Get clear on who you are and where you're going. Lead from your own compass.
CAPACITY
Hold Your Truth: Stay grounded when emotions run high. No shutting down or exploding.
COURAGE
Express Your Truth: Speak honestly, set boundaries, and ask for what you need.
CONSISTENCY
Live Your Truth: Show up as the same man every day. Build self-trust that others can depend on.
What’s Included
1-on-1 Kickoff Session to map your situation and create your roadmap
12 Weekly 1-on-1 Calls tailored to your challenges and growth
Direct Messaging Support for real-time guidance when you need it
Proven frameworks and tools to build self-trust and grounded leadership
Accountability from someone who will see your blind spots and call you in
My Guarantee: Results or Full Refund
Show up to every session. Do the work. Apply the frameworks. If by the end of 12 weeks you haven't experienced significant shifts in your confidence and relationship, I'll refund 100% of your investment.
Who's Guiding You?
I'm Stu Murray.
I lost every woman I loved because I didn't know how to lead.
I avoided conflict, said yes when I meant no, and prioritized keeping the peace over being honest. My partners couldn't trust me because I didn't trust myself.
Everything changed when I got radically honest with other men and learned to lead myself first. That built the self-trust I needed to finally lead in relationship.
Now I'm engaged to an incredible woman. There's deep trust, respect, intimacy, and real connection.
I created The Trusted Man Intensive because I know the pain of not knowing how to lead. And I know what it takes to become the man your partner can trust, respect, and choose.
You can't lead your relationship until you learn to lead yourself.
Let me show you how.
