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      <image:title>Blog - Intro to Time Blocking - Identify Priorities and Tasks:</image:title>
      <image:caption>List your tasks, both short-term and long-term. Prioritize tasks based on urgency and importance. Use the Eisenhower Matrix (pictured on your right) to determine what action needs to be taken for each task Allocate specific time blocks for tasks falling into Quadrants 1 and 2 of the Eisenhower Matrix (Step 2). These are your high-priority tasks that align with your goals and require focused attention. Schedule time blocks for Quadrant 3 tasks cautiously, and delegate or automate these tasks wherever possible. Minimize or avoid dedicating time blocks to Quadrant 4 tasks to maintain focus on what truly matters. Eliminate these if/when you can.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Intro to Time Blocking - 2. Allocate Time Slots:</image:title>
      <image:caption>Assign specific time slots in your day for different tasks or categories of tasks. Assess the nature and complexity of each task. Some tasks might require shorter, focused time blocks (e.g., 30 minutes) for quick activities like replying to emails or making phone calls. For more involved or creative tasks, consider allocating longer time blocks (e.g., 1-2 hours) to delve deeper without interruptions. Group similar tasks together within a time block. For example, schedule all meetings in one block, handle administrative tasks in another, and reserve separate blocks for creative work or strategic planning.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Intro to Time Blocking - 3. Use a Calendar or Planner:</image:title>
      <image:caption>Sit down with your favorite calendar app or paper planner and create time blocks for the coming week that reflect the times you’ll work on each category.  Make sure all of your priorities and commitments are given enough space on your calendar. If you struggle to find room, you may need to start cutting down on your commitments. The result will look something like this —&gt; If you find it difficult to stick to your digital schedule, I recommend planning your day out on paper. A paper schedule forces you to start fresh each day and makes it easy to scribble things out and adapt as the day goes on.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - The Way of the Revolutionary - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>My rudimentary “Paint” sketch (Part 1)</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - The Way of the Revolutionary - Groupthink is when members of a group go along with something even when they know it’s not right. There are lots of studies and examples, but one that startled me was Asch’s lines. This was an experiment where they placed a test subject together with a small group of people in a classroom-like setting. The researchers would show lines of various lengths on the board, and ask everyone to say which line (A, B or C) was closer to the length of the line they showed, like this →</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog - The Way of the Revolutionary - Signals from other people are sometimes helpful. Social cues help us figure out where to park, for example, or whether we need to wear a heavy jacket today. But in cases like the line test or the Milgram experiment, where social influence can sometimes unhinge even our most solid convictions, it may lead us (and our institutions) astray.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Stanley Milgram’s experiment that ‘shocked’ the world</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>My rudimentary “Paint” sketch (Part 2)</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Source: Retuers</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The first ever full-scale bronze statue commemorating the famous ‘football game’ true between British and German soldiers Photo From: CULTURE LIVERPOOL</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Chop Wood, Carry Water - Practice mindfulness in work. It does little good to attain clarity of mind on your meditation cushion if you lose it as soon as you become active. Start with simple activities like brushing your teeth, ironing clothes, or washing dishes. Be fully alert as you move. Notice the position of your body in space. Notice the feelings in your body as you move. Pay attention to the thoughts that enter your mind when you do the task. See if you can let them go and just focus on the work itself. Alan Watts alludes to this when he says, “Zen does not confuse spirituality with thinking about God while one is peeling potatoes. Zen spirituality is just to peel the potatoes.”</image:title>
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      <image:caption>A timely note from my dear brother Aeron. It reads, “The measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort or convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.”</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Seeds of Change: A Journey of Creating Transformational Learning Environments for Students - The four questions are:</image:title>
      <image:caption>1) There is an adult at the school that I   feel safe to talk to if something is bothering me.  2) I have a choice in what I am learning.  3) I am interested in what I am learning.  4) I take time alone to think about what’s important in life, such as who I am, and what I value.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Seeds of Change: A Journey of Creating Transformational Learning Environments for Students</image:title>
      <image:caption>I dedicated the following portion of each day to teaching and practicing skills of mindfulness – the ability to stay focused on one’s present experience with nonjudgmental awareness and curiosity. I would either lead students through a yoga practice or a guided meditation, simply directing them to breath and body awareness. The initial feedback was almost resoundingly negative. They did not like taking time to slow down. These practices didn’t offer the same stimulation that they were used to with their phones and video games. On the contrary, mindfulness challenged them to observe their own thoughts and emotions, which can be an extremely difficult task in this age of distraction. After only a week however, students began asking for mindful moments throughout the day because they were able to recognize how much calmer they felt afterwards.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Seeds of Change: A Journey of Creating Transformational Learning Environments for Students</image:title>
      <image:caption>Afternoons were dedicated to a second passion project with the hopes of sparking joy in the students by exploring topics that intrigued them. The inquiry-based projects tested the students’ abilities to think critically and creatively and encouraged them to explore their passion in a way that would allow them to contribute to society in a meaningful way. Things moved very slowly at first, likely because students were not used to having such open-ended learning opportunities. However, with guidance and encouragement, students came up with a variety of fascinating projects. Several students tended to a hydroponic garden where they learned how to grow and prepare food.</image:caption>
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